What to wear, what to wear??? I have an event coming up on October 23, 2014. It's NAMI NYC Staten Island's 24th Annual Awards Dinner. It's a semi-formal event, but people come in all manner of dress, from casual to dressy and elegant. I prefer to look dressy and elegant, naturally. I've pretty much decided that I want to wear my new violet merino sweater from J. Jill, with either an amethyst pendant necklace or a blue lace agate pendant necklace. I'm trying to decide between the two black skirts, and whether I should wear silver flats and a silver clutch with the black tights (which I think would look weird, but maybe I could wear black flats with the silver clutch), or the black Doc Martens or black loafers with my black Coach satchel handbag. Decisions, decisions! Any advice, my fine peeps?